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No. 4073
Anonymous
21st February 2010 Sunday 6:41 pm
4073
My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian
/emo/, my girlfriend, of a few years now, a bit back admitted to me that she believed she was a lesbian.
Now, I am fully aware a bond between two women can be one of the most gorgeous breath-taking events that can take place, and that one can experience and share... possibly with a larger audience (all the better), on earth. Well, taking into consideration that they do not resemble anything closely to: Rosie O'Donnell (thank the heavens she does not, and is very fit!).
With that said: No, she's not into threesomes or orgies (that I know of anyway). We've discussed this in the past, not as propositions, but as analyzation of other relationships. So suggesting a threesome would be out of the question. Although, it'd probably be a great way to end the relationship: Sort of like exchanging a position of power with another official, days after election day. Again though, the likelihood of this happening however, would be very highly unlikely.
That aside, would it be best to part ways in such circumstances? Or should I stick it out, taking into considerations that her: desires, wants, and needs are that of another woman. All while in the back of my mind coming into terms that she will eventually want to leave me for another girl, regardless of how much she loves me.
I say this as she didn't state she wanted to end the relationship, not yet anyway. More than likely due to not finding that possible perfect girl yet.
While we do have our downfalls, I do adore and get along with this girl very well (the most I ever have with anyone), nonetheless, with all this into play: I am bit hesitant to say whether the relationship can continue for years to come without fully addressing this issue/desire.
I was fully aware she was attracted to girls prior entering the relationship (she's had a girlfriend before), and was completely willing to face the consequences it may present. Regardless, a relationship is a relationship and I knew it would still be hard to deal with in such circumstances.
Now, suppose this were a joke. She would have that type of humour, but signs point otherwise in regards to her interests and character. So while it may have been a playful joke, I am still fully aware she thinks of girls in that kind of way. So suppose it is, however: I believe them to be subconscious thoughts regardless, judging from past events that have taken place.
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