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Well this is quite a cunty /emo/ thread. Sounds like you're all on your rag. And no I don't want to lick your bloody fanny.
>Do the actions described above make me a toxic or controlling person, especially losing my temper so early on?
I don't think so personally. Telling her to shut the fuck up is a bit harsh though, especially if you've only been going out a month. I'm not surprised she then got a bit defensive.
You then continued to dig your own hole with all the stuff about her interrupting, health risks blahblahblah. For a rational person you should realise that this was silly. Of course she's going to get upset with that sort of shit, especially if she's on the rag.
>Is she the one that's fucked?
Pressuring you into doing something sexually you're not comfortable with is a bit of a cunt move but then so is telling someone to shut the fuck up and sperging out.
So I'd say you're probably both a bit fucked, everyone is really. You're both just flawed damaged human beings like we all are and it sounds like a shitty argument. It needn't be a big deal, which lead onto;
>Does this mean we're not compatible as a couple?
Only you can really answer that mate. None of us know either of you or the dynamics of the relationship. To me it doesn't sound like a particularly big deal though.
Personally I'd apologise for snapping but try to tactfully explain that pressuring someone into something like that is a bit shitty, could maybe ask how she'd feel if you were pressuring her into sucking your knob when she didn't want to or whatever. Up to you though really, it's an impossible question to answer on a place like this.
>Have you made a similar exclamation to a significant other and if so how did it turn out?
Only really in jest and when I'd been with the person for a while and was comfortable enough to call them a dickhead or shut the fuck up and received similar in return. It's actually quite nice when you can call your significant other a twat and you can both laugh about it.
Not been in your specific situation though. So can't really give you anymore of my half baked waffle I'm afraid.
As I say personally I'd probably just apologise and then sex it all out of your systems.
Best of luck.