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Im having a really strange problem that i have never encountered before, and didnt even realise actually ever really happened.
Ive been in a relationship with this girl for about 5 or 6 months and everything was going great. We both had the same feelings for each other etc.
We lived together in temporary accommodation for 4 months and then she got moved to a different place round the corner to a place that has keyworkers as she is bipolar. At first i wasnt allowed access to the building as i didnt have any photo id. I eventually got this and we resumed relations for 3 days a week. Then i got banned from the building for going to her place whilst having been signed in by another resident. Stupid way to be treated as adults.
Now the problem is that we are lucky to meet 2 or 3 times a month and its all on her terms or so it seems. She calls me up to meet me when she wants sex and sneaks into my place. Now, it may sound like every blokes dream being used in this way but what i miss is the companionship and i feel robbed of an opportunity at happiness as we really did get on so well.
Things are that ridiculous i have to write her handwritten letters as she smashed her phone up at Christmas during one of her episodes.
She says the only way around this is to find permanent accommodation as we cant be meeting on the street at our age or in this weather and even when we have done its not like we can do much...
In essence, im heartbroken as in all my years ive never been this much in love. If i could just get over it and forget her that would make me happy as a second option but i cant get her out of my mind, i just think about her 24/7. Also, security at my place are also bastards and wont let her contact me even though they know we have been together for some time so when she comes looking for me ill be in my room none the wiser.
Can anyone tell me what course of action they would take in this situation?