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>> No. 26216 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 7:29 am
26216 Man child help
I'm middle aged with a teenlad situation.

Backstory as such is that I've been friends with my landlady years before moving in.

Yesterday I messaged her asking if she though I was a good match for her colleague, whom I thought was also her friend. This morning I wake up to the following text:

"No. And she is my staff, not friend. Don't talk to her so much".

Later she also messages me with new arrangements for some stuff with the flat so I don't have to see this other woman.

Your thoughts?
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>> No. 26217 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 10:39 am
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>>26216


She seems weirdly hostile. I really can't explain her reaction. Without assuming either you were somehow crass Or she is being controlling on a sociopathic level.
>> No. 26218 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 11:14 am
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It's hard to tell without more context.


Has your landlady ever expressed an attraction to you? It could be a jealousy thing, or like >>26217 a weird control thing.

She could genuinely think you're just not a good match, but it does seem odd for her to tell you to stay away from this girl, unless it's a weird way of trying to protect you from disappointment?

Or by the way she dismisses her as 'her staff' it could be that she just doesn't like the girl and thinks you should be going after better.

If it was me, I'd ask her why she thought you'd not be a good match, and why she seems so intent on now separating you two.
>> No. 26219 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 1:26 pm
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>>26216
I think you know the answer already lad. Asking a girl-friend if you think another girl-friend of theirs is a good match for you is a fucking minefield. It's at that point you find out they've secretly been holding a candle for you.
>> No. 26223 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 3:02 pm
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OP here. Yeah I think she has a bit of a thing for me, but is also a bit mental.
>> No. 26225 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 4:07 pm
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>>26223

>she has a bit of a thing for me, but is also a bit mental.

That explains it, then.

This is tricky, as if you play it right, telling the girl her mental boss is trying to keep her away from you works incredibly well in your favour. But you'll have to be prepared to move house, just in case.
>> No. 26226 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 5:07 pm
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Ask her if you can pay for your rent with your cock.
>> No. 26227 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 6:25 pm
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>>26225
>But you'll have to be prepared to move house, just in case.

This is like a variant of the DUMP THE MENTAL BITCH advice we so often give out.
>> No. 26228 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 6:48 pm
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>>26227
The correct term is "ditch the bitch".

It rhymes, you see.
>> No. 26229 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 6:50 pm
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>>26227

I don't disagree with that advice, but what I meant was that if your mental landlady is mental and jealous, she's going to try and kick you out.
>> No. 26230 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 6:54 pm
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>>26227

Actually the recurring theme seems to be "AVOID MENTAL SLAGS".
>> No. 26231 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 7:21 pm
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>>26230

But most mad women aren't going to own the property you're renting so there's a bit more going on here.
>> No. 26232 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 7:50 pm
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>>26231

My landlords in the past might have been mental slags, but I wouldn't know because I wouldn't make friends with them and ask them about whether they think I should shag their employees.

"don't shit on your own doorstep" has never been so apposite.
>> No. 26233 Anonymous
12th March 2018
Monday 10:51 pm
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>>26229
Oh I'm right with you. Mental landlady who might also be in love with you is a recipe for disaster and homelessness - the one off shag you might get had better fucking be worth it.

I was trying to be nice to the OP; it's clear he is going to be moving house soon.
>> No. 26234 Anonymous
13th March 2018
Tuesday 5:30 am
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OP here, yeah I'm going to move and bang the other girl, maybe go for broke and suggest a threesome.
>> No. 26235 Anonymous
13th March 2018
Tuesday 6:50 am
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>>26234

Please keep us informed how it goes lad.
>> No. 26236 Anonymous
13th March 2018
Tuesday 7:32 am
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>>26235

I will. I suspect badly, but it doesn't matter and I am genuinely beyond caring about this.
>> No. 26237 Anonymous
13th March 2018
Tuesday 8:33 am
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>>26236

This seems more Ideal than Falling Down, to be perfectly honest.

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