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Can you lads tell me if I'm being a cunt?
My housemate is a complete nightmare. I actively dislike very, very few people in my life but I dislike this man.
I live in a flatshare with him and one other person, we didn't know each other before moving in and I missed the warning signs in a need to quickly find somewhere to live when I moved to London.
For context, we live in a pricey flat (over 3k between us per month), we have good jobs, I'm in my twenties, both of the others are in their thirties, the one I don't like being 34.
He seems to have zero, and I mean zero, awareness of those around him. When I moved in, he would start cooking in the kitchen at 1am and just play music really loudly or hoover his room. I've gone out and asked him what he thought he was doing and he's since stopped.
It doesn't end there though he simply never washes up, hoards dirty plates and glasses in his room and then when he does bring it out after weeks just dumps it in the sink and leaves it.
I once confronted him about it and he, again, acted nice and apologetic although pretended he didn't remember if it was his stuff (it was, me and the other housemate always wash up), but then when the other housemate was there claimed 'he was being forced to be the maid and wash up' despite the fact he's a literal health risk.
He steals shit from the bathroom, he shuts his door like he's slamming shut a nuclear bunker door, has nearly burnt down the flat twice by going to bed and leaving the stove on to burn things and need the fire brigade to be called, and is generally just a giant man-child pain in the arse.
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