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I guess it depends on what phase of its life cycle your relationship is currently in. In the beginning, there should always be copious amounts of bonking, and you'll sometimes even be slightly glad for the days when your little friend gets to have a day off, but once you've grown massively tired of each other and sex happens only rarely and mainly due to the convenience of not having to go out to find someone else to shag, I'd say wanking almost becomes your dominant form of sexual release. One of my exes actually told me that for the entire last year of her previous relationship, her and her ex boyfriend never had sex even once anymore.
During the sweet spot phase of a relationship when you've known each other for some time and really feel close to that person and in love, I'd say you can't complain, most of your sexual release will be from actual sex, with the odd wank thrown in when your missus is unavailable.