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>> No. 27337 Anonymous
12th September 2018
Wednesday 12:09 pm
27337 'He's got to go'
Ultimatum from the missus. Our 5 month old puppy ran off, she spent 20 minutes chasing him down. Final straw, apparently.
She's livid.
Trying to work out what to do. Losing her temper and smacking him around is imho unacceptable. He's just a puppy, being a puppy. Why the fuck can't she see that (and keep him on a lead when he can escape, rather than allowing him to get into situations which piss her off so much. It's as if she likes the fight, or is too dumb to see the possibility?)
Granted, he can be a pain in the arse.
Ah, fuck's sake. I dunno. If this turns into a 'me or the dog' situation, I don't know which way I'll jump. I can't handle her temper.
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>> No. 27338 Anonymous
12th September 2018
Wednesday 12:13 pm
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People who get angry at dogs, or animals in general for that matter, are retards. It's like getting angry with the wind, it's all just doing its thing, come what may. Irritating, sure, but if it makes a person angry, then that person's dumb or rotten.
>> No. 27339 Anonymous
12th September 2018
Wednesday 1:29 pm
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First rule of emo m8. Hitting a puppy is mental slag behaviour.
>> No. 27340 Anonymous
12th September 2018
Wednesday 2:02 pm
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Call the police.
>> No. 27341 Anonymous
12th September 2018
Wednesday 4:06 pm
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A) How long have you been with her?

B) Who's idea was it to get the dog?

C) Is she prone to outbursts of anger like that normally?
>> No. 27342 Anonymous
12th September 2018
Wednesday 5:40 pm
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Dump the bitch. Keep the dog.
>> No. 27343 Anonymous
13th September 2018
Thursday 10:45 am
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>>27338
> It's like getting angry with the wind, it's all just doing its thing, come what may. Irritating, sure, but if it makes a person angry
Well, I suspected I was mental.
Sage for being off-topic. But it hit the nerve.
>> No. 27345 Anonymous
13th September 2018
Thursday 2:28 pm
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Who the fuck hits a puppy? Huge red flag m8
>> No. 27346 Anonymous
13th September 2018
Thursday 4:21 pm
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There's no way this can end well if you stay with her. She's proved herself to be unstable, petty, and cruel. The fact you're posting here means you're not okay with what she's done, and I doubt anyone here would encourage you to give her a second chance. You deserve better, and so does that dog.
>> No. 27347 Anonymous
13th September 2018
Thursday 8:02 pm
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>>27343
I think it would better for everyone to simply amend your behaviour, and besides you could make an argument my entire point is flawed. I’m no authority on anything.
>> No. 27348 Anonymous
14th September 2018
Friday 10:16 am
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>>27347
> you could make an argument my entire point is flawed
Not really.
Then again I get too much riled up when it's pissing rain (or downpour, whatever) and I have to go to work.
Aw, sod it.
>> No. 27349 Anonymous
14th September 2018
Friday 1:22 pm
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>>27348
Getting a bit riled up by bad weather is perfectly normal though; getting punchy because of it is another thing entirely. I wouldn't stay a minute longer with a girl I'd seen be abusive to pets.
>> No. 27350 Anonymous
14th September 2018
Friday 4:08 pm
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>>27349
Nay, not punchy. But sometimes I tend to think I'm overreacting.
Can't do anything about that really. Even with full awareness that it's something I can't control.

Awright, it's high time for me to bugger off. Sorry for derailling your thread, OP.
>> No. 27351 Anonymous
14th September 2018
Friday 4:27 pm
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OP here - No worries m8, and take it as easy as you can.

There's been a lot of tiptoeing around and avoiding the discussion we really need to have. I'm utterly swamped with work, really could do without this right now.
>> No. 27352 Anonymous
14th September 2018
Friday 4:46 pm
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>>27351
Your first responsibility is to get that dog out of that situation. If you want to um and ah and put off dealing with things to avoid confrontation that's your choice but the dog doesn't have one. Give him to someone who won't beat him, today.
>> No. 27353 Anonymous
14th September 2018
Friday 5:18 pm
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>>27352
The dog is not getting beaten, and is a happy puppy. Do not fret.
It's not some stockholm syndrome by proxy thing (but I would say that, wouldn't I...)
>> No. 27354 Anonymous
14th September 2018
Friday 5:29 pm
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>>27353
Can you clarify? Did she beat the puppy? If not, why did you say it? If she did beat the puppy 'just the once', how can you be so sure it won't happen again? As the poster above said, get the dog away from her. She is a risk to it.
>> No. 27355 Anonymous
14th September 2018
Friday 7:01 pm
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>>27353

But you said :

>Losing her temper and smacking him around

Which sounds very much like she hit the dog. Even if it was once, that is enough to know she shouldn't be around the dog, and you'll be doing yourself a favour getting shot of her too.
>> No. 27380 Anonymous
17th September 2018
Monday 1:11 am
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Revisionist post pruning so that only one side of a debate as to whether a dog is in danger shows up? On my britfa?
>> No. 27382 Anonymous
17th September 2018
Monday 4:27 am
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>>27380

Deleting anything that isn't direct advice or a question to the OP, i.e the miasma of shite that happened (on both sides) after certain comments.

It was pretty obvious the other comments, again, both sides of the argument, were not helping OP and were possibly scaring them away - so they were removed. This is how /emo/ should always work, and will always work when I'm awake, anyway, or as long as the other, bigger, scarier mods agree with me

If you want a discussion about the moral relativism of animal cruelty, you're more than welcome to take it to any other board. But it was not appropriate for /emo/, despite being tangentially related to the post, and was careening off into cuntoff land.

>> No. 27385 Anonymous
17th September 2018
Monday 11:14 am
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>>27382

I'm usually the first to criticize heavy handed modding, but I think you've made the right call here, good job.
>> No. 27386 Anonymous
17th September 2018
Monday 11:44 am
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Just sell it to your local chinese restaurant

Have you considered a dog borstall or that strange woman (Victoria Stilwell) who used to train dogs on channel 4?
>> No. 27410 Anonymous
22nd September 2018
Saturday 8:19 pm
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OP here.
I didn't see what she did to the dog, so was relying on what she told me, in her pissed off state.
In calmer circumstances, she said she caught him, brought him home, smacked his arse, and that was it. I'd say that was the wrong order, at the least, but it wasn't what I'd been imagining.
Puppy is seriously fine. Curled up with her on the sofa watching some bollocks or other on telly. He's not traumatised, still loves us both, like only a 6 month puppy can.
He now goes to daycare on days when I'm not working from home, so she doesn't get ratty about being disturbed all the time. He _loves_ daycare. Things are good.
I was a tad low when I posted, and it probably shows in the posting.
>> No. 27411 Anonymous
22nd September 2018
Saturday 8:22 pm
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Also - I did read all the replies, and the cuntoff.
It was reassuring.
When alien zombies land and start sucking brains and laying waste to the planet, I shall expect the same.
>> No. 27412 Anonymous
23rd September 2018
Sunday 12:21 am
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Absolutely no need to strike a dog for such things.

She's a mentalist and you're a wimp beating around the bush.
>> No. 27413 Anonymous
23rd September 2018
Sunday 1:06 am
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>>27410

It still seems like a red flag to be so pissed off at an innocent creature. If she doesn't understand the puppy's not trying to personally offend her, then I can't imagine her being great at human empathy either.
>> No. 27414 Anonymous
23rd September 2018
Sunday 9:34 am
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Yeah, life's not perfect - nor's she, nor am I.
There's no more accusing the dog of deliberately pissing her off, and, because (sane) reasons, I believe she really believes this.
We muddle on, and life's pretty good for all of us. Lots of other things to worry about, but this, I think, has passed.

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