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>> No. 29931 Anonymous
10th August 2020
Monday 2:25 am
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What is the proper social protocol for starting up platonic acquaintanceships with people you meet on a night out? Somehow I often end up exchanging numbers with temporary drinking buddies when I go out drinking alone but it has never lead anywhere. Is it even supposed to lead somewhere or is it just a thing drunks do and forget about in the cold light of day?

Am I supposed to invite these people somewhere or is that a bit gay? If some one-night drinking buddy invited me to go somewhere I would immediately assume that they had intentions of the shirt lifting kind, but I have self-diagnosed myself with both autism and sex appeal so I have no idea how a regular person would process this sort of stuff.
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>> No. 29932 Anonymous
10th August 2020
Monday 7:08 am
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Most straightforward protocol I can think of is sending a text like, "hey mate it's x from y, will you be at y again on Friday? I'll be there with z give me a message if you want to join".

Don't worry about coming across as a shirt-lifter, you can always clarify later. The less date-like you can make it the better.

Ideally during one of your pissups you strike on a mutual hobby and can meet in a different context, with a similarly casual invitation.
>> No. 29933 Anonymous
10th August 2020
Monday 10:07 am
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I've always just deleted their numbers after a while.
>> No. 29934 Anonymous
10th August 2020
Monday 11:03 am
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How do you meet people when you go out alone?
>> No. 29935 Anonymous
10th August 2020
Monday 12:08 pm
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>> No. 29936 Anonymous
10th August 2020
Monday 9:30 pm
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Usually I ask people for a light or sit at the bar and things somehow snowball from there.

Audible mirth. Hits very close to home.

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