Should I start weaning myself off tranny porn? I know that on a scientific level the combination of a penis + tits and a vaguely feminine figure can really get the old neurons a firin', but hot traps don't really exist in real life unless you have £150-£200 to spend on escorts.
I think this is a question that can be extended to anyone who wanks to non-vanilla stuff. In a world full of horses, ponies, and donkeys, is it wise to train yourself to get off to unicorns?
"Vanilla" porn isn't reflective of most people's real sex lives either. You're probably not going to pick up a 19-year-old with perfect skin, massive tits and a 22" waist in your local Wetherspoons. You probably don't have six-pack abs and a 10" cock and probably can't fuck for hours. Most of us are completely average and that's fine.
People would generally rather watch Premiership football than their local non-league team. I don't think that there's anything wrong with watching porn that involves people who are abnormally attractive and athletic as long as you're aware that it's a fantasy.
Wanting to fuck unattainably attractive young (trans)women is nothing new. It's only really a problem if you lose the ability to be attracted to the sort of people you could realistically have sex with. In that case, I think it's wise to take a break from all porn and re-train your imagination.
Also strap-ons exist if you just want to get your prostate tickled by someone with tits.
I dunno. Fapping to copious amounts of furry porn has never affected my ability to be turned on by and shag real life lasses. But then, I suppose knowing cute femboy wolves just plain don't exist means I'm been under no illusion I ever could be shagged by one- Curiously I've never been interested in lads in real life either, despite being a massive gay in the fur. What I find arousing to wank to just isn't necessarily connected to my real life sexual preferences, is the point I'm making.
That might not necessarily be the case for you, but I think the issue is that you're looking at porn as an extension of your real life sexual activities, when it's probably healthier to maintain a recognition of boundary between wank fantasy and real life. It's really no different to how most straight vanilla lads will have grown up wanking to models like Imogen Thomas, when in reality the best they can do is a bird like Scarlett Moffatt, if you think about it.
I really believe my life would have turned out much better had I not watched any porn at all, or drastically reduced my viewing.
Unfortunately, I'm trapped in a loveless relationship wherein my 'partner' and I don't have sex, but are staying together for the sake of our child, so pornography is my only real outlet for sexual frustration, but that's another story.
I think the aggregate impact on men of porn is mostly bad, so any weening off of it is a positive life choice in my view.
Do you have a reason to believe that porn has mostly negative effects?
Also your child will work out that it's a loveless relationship pretty damned quickly, so they'll be better off if you make a clean break now rather than a messy break later.
>most straight vanilla lads will have grown up wanking to models like Imogen Thomas, when in reality the best they can do is a bird like Scarlett Moffatt
You thin fetishists really do get the shitty end of the stick. I'd take Moffatt over Thomas in a heartbeat.
Don't listen to that nofap bullshit - porn does no harm. If it did work that way then the logical conclusion would be to wank while doing the housework and other chores.
>hot traps don't really exist in real life unless you have £150-£200 to spend on escorts
Have you tried? Clubs usually do transgender nights if you're willing to travel and I imagine it's quite a lonely life. Or if its just a no-strings fantasy you want to try then £200 is nothing in the grand scheme of things.
Failing that, I enjoy pornographic games so do that if you don't mind an enormous time-sink.
>>30013 >People would generally rather watch Premiership football than their local non-league team
Am I really such a wrong'un that I quite prefer the mid-low leagues? It feels more...real and it's enjoyable to fantasise that you probably could. Give me a brunette with a nice smile and a bit of character, average body that has the weight in the right places and body-hair.
I suppose it's only logical that with age I've come to appreciate women that my mind associates more with motherhood.
>>30017 >Don't listen to that nofap bullshit - porn does no harm.
Porn can very much do harm, as can almost anything. Pointing out porn has been a detriment for one person doesn't mean it's inherently shameful or evil.
Personally, I also believe I'd have been far better off if I'd not watched porn, or reduced my viewing. It wasn't even so much about developing unrealistic expectations (in fact, the sheer variety and availability of porn probably increased the scope of my sexual attractions, and made it easier to see that side of people in real life), but I've also developed some really unhealthy associations between sex and certain emotional states.
Ultimately, porn is a pretty isolated and passive form of consumption. It can be distracting, expensive (in terms of time and/or money), and can really cause certain wires to be crossed psychologically.
There are better ways of dealing with stress or sexual needs, but I guess it all depends how you use these things.
>>30020 Porn tends to normalise things that aren't generally part of a healthy sexual relationship. Studies have found that a lot of teenage girls have felt pressured into performing sex acts they're not comfortable with because teenage boys are growing up thinking things like aggressive throat fucking are the norm.
>>30017 I'm not down with the religiosity of nofap but after trying "noporn", I do recognise the benefits of qutting porn and wanking using solely one's imagination. I heard a quote once which went something like "pornography takes you further than you want to go, it costs you more than you're willing to pay, and it'll keep you longer than you want to stay". In my experience that couldn't be more accurate.
I have actually been to tranny clubs a couple of times. All the fit gender benders I encountered were prostitutes. Sex is an ephemeral thing and ultimately the goal for most people is a tangible, intimate connection, and this is something that is far more achievable when you have a pool of 50% of the population that is comprised of women rather than the 1% that is comprised of gender benders.
