It's perfectly normal with a new partner and nothing to worry about. Go to your local pharmacy and get some Cialis. You'll quickly get more comfortable with her.

It can be the excitement of being with somebody new and putting yourself under unnecessary performance pressure. You want to be desirable to that person, and let them see you in the best light possible. But it can do a number on you.

Cialis is one option. But also try to relax mentally, and not get too worked up about the fact that you're in bed with a new partner.

Before you try cialis, I'd suggest a cock ring. You can get a soft silicone one for a couple of quid and it can make a massive difference.

Also, lay off the booze and get some exercise.

Thanks lads, I am probably drinking too much and I need to stop being lazy for sure.

I tried a cockring before and it felt really uncomfortable, I felt like my dick was about to explode.

I've always been a bit weird about trying cialis/viagra and then becoming reliant on them? Not sure if that's a thing.

Absolutely just seems like a bit of a mental thing I'll overcome.

I've been shilling cialis on here for ages. Get some, it's cracking. buy it on the dark web for 1/10th the price

Also exercise more, and watch your diet. You're not the horny young stud you were, and it's perfectly normal, but unfortunately that does mean you have to make some adjustments.

>>6221

>I've always been a bit weird about trying cialis/viagra and then becoming reliant on them? Not sure if that's a thing.

No, if anything the other way around. You are correct that it's very much a mental thing as much as physical. Taking the pill allows you to enjoy sex without that anxiety, and after that, you'll find you actually have an easier time subsequently because you won't get stuck in that cycle of over-thinking it.

Taking boner pills did more good for my mental health than any SSRI bollocks ever has done honestly.

Any side effects at all?

>>6224

Viagra gives you a blocked nose, while cialis has nothing I've ever noticed.

The main difference is in how long they last. Cialis is good to pop one Friday night and you'll be good basically all weekend, or alternatively take much smaller doses daily and never worry about erections again. Viagra is what you would probably want if it's a one night thing or you just don't want a stiffy all day at work the next day etc, but personally I think cialis makes it completely obsolete.

>>6221
It's not really addictive but yeah obviously you take it a few times until you get comfortable. Or you can just give it time, I've never met a bird who didn't mind if I just went down on her and beat off. It's not like they won't understand situations where the mind might be willing but the bits aren't cooperating.

Then one morning you'll be comfortable and you'll smash her back doors in.

>>6222
>You're not the horny young stud you were

No this is wrong, it's a physiological reaction to the situation. The opposite side of the coin to premature ejaculation. The internet is full of young men who had Mr. Floppy and end up confused and preyed on by that evangelical non-fap nonsense.

>>6225
I've found Cialis is more like it sustains natural erections more than anything. Which can get dangerous as you have little arousals all day but I'd rate it on the level of being bored during a summer heatwave than something comical.

>>6226

>No this is wrong, it's a physiological reaction to the situation.

It can be both, as you get older you are more susceptible to general fatigue and you're plain and simply not as fit as you were. In the vast majority of cases I am sure it's purely a mental thing, but getting more exercise, cutting down on the booze and fags, and eating better definitely improves your knob's performance.

>>6226

Are there greymarkets either can be found without wiring money to India? Getting an appointment for a prescription is a hassle.

>>6228
There's a giant display in my local Boots promoting Cialis. I stand right next to it every three weeks or so while I'm queuing up for my insulin. You don't need a prescription, but you do need to ask the chemist, a bit like codeine.

OP is King Charles and I claim my £5.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-68016928

>>6229

I asked before and they sold me some after taking some details but said I'd need to see the doctor before they'd let me again. Or maybe that was Viagra. I live in a very small town and it would be nice to avoid the one chemist.

On the topic of stiffys, is it weird to not get morning woof at 32 years old? I can’t remember having that in years, but I have otherwise no issues whatsoever with my sexual health. I read all this stuff online about how if you don’t get it at all you should visit a doctor…

>>6232

If you don't get it ever, at all, then yeah I'd perhaps wonder if something's up (ha!). Do you still get hard easily enough for intercourse/wanking?

I don't get it every morning, or rather it's not always precisely as I wake up. Sometimes I'll wake up something like an hour before my alarm with a raging stonk on. But at 33 it's definitely still happening for me.

>>6233
Yeah that’s totally fine, hard as ever. I think I might do very occasionally, but it’s very rare if I do.

>>6232
Having said that, I do wake up sometimes in the middle of the night and notice I have an erection…