So I got sucked off by a stranger in a toilet cubicle today.
The whole thing kind of happened by accident. The plan was to meet in a public place, as all the rules say you should. But he was all business, there was no 'getting to know you' nonsence, just a simple invite to follow him. I thought we were maybe going to order a coffee, but he even held the toilet door open for me. It all happened so fast. Someone else even came in, to the next cubicle no less, and he stayed there on his knees sucking away. I even thought he was putting his hands under the gap at the bottom into the next cubicle at one point, as some kind of cruising-code for inviting the guy next door in as well, but maybe I was just being paranoid.
Eventually he came first, then me. As quickly as he had led me almost literally by the hand into the toilet, he was gone, leaving me to recover, collect my thoughts, and scrub away the DNA in case of forensics. I'm bringing the antibac wipes, bleach and marigolds back tomorrow to make sure.
Even if I were to be cottaging, there's no way I'd meet outside the toilet and go in together. How would that look on CCTV?
Opinions and discussion is invited on cottaging, and particularly on my situation. Although I must be honest and say I'm not particularly traumatised or concerned by this experience, it was more normal than I had previously demonised it to be in my head, but it's not me. I don't consider myself a cottager. Oh, and he was in his early 20s, as am I.
If any heterosexuals see this on /*/, what would you make of a woman doing this to you?
You don't need to go back to scrub up - nobody cares and even if you somehow did get reported to seen by the police, they have better things to do with their extremely limited forensic capabilities than investigate a reported sucking in a bathroom.
Going in together doesn't mean anything, most places don't have anyone watching the CCTV in real time anyway. CCTV is usually so poor in terms of quality it can't be used to ID you in court - I used to work in a place with the most expensive CCTV going a few years ago, and it wasn't admissible evidence if anything went wrong. All it's there for is insurance, and following coloured blurs through the streets.
As a heterosexual, if a woman did this to me, I'd probably wake up soon after.
Am I missing something here? I'm not sure what exactly you're worried about, or why this is a 'gay problem'. It's not like this country still has laws against homosexual activity, so why would a man sucking off another man be worse than a woman doing it?
Also this:
>As a heterosexual, if a woman did this to me, I'd probably wake up soon after.
>>1340 OP here, thanks. If I were to say it happened at a coffee place at the golf club, would that make a difference? I imagine I could be banned from the golf club if apprehended, but do you think they would care as little as a shopping centre, who aren't a members only institution? In the hypothetical example, the golf club coffee bar is accessible to the public, but realistically, only used by golfers, of which I am, but I don't think the other guy was.
It's indecent exposure, I think. I'm not sure, but I think cruising is legal anywhere, but to engage in sexual behaviour on the spot in a public place is illegal. I assume public toilets, or communal toilets where the public can visit, are considered public places. Regarding this being a gay problem (if it's not a big deal, I'll revise to 'issue') whilst other orientations could engage in this behaviour, as both of you imply, it would most likely be a dream. Whilst I think dogging might be more inclusive, I suspect the nsa cruise and cottage scene is almost exclusively gay.
>>1339 So, did you enjoy it?
In a roundabout way that's all that matters -excluding the risk of STDs- if you enjoyed it, it was a good thing and you should try it again, if you didn't then that's fine and in the future be a bit more careful when you arrange to meet random guys.
>>1344 I'm kind of indifferent to it. I managed to get hard fast enough and managed to climax in reasonable time without having to take over, which I quite often have to do in my usual encounters. So that side of it was good; fast and efficient service.
The downsides were that I don't get off on the risk factor. I didn't find it exciting to think I was being naughty and could get caught. I'm out, at least, so I imagine that's quite a feeling for people who cottage in the closet. Public places might turn me on, but only isolated like the woods or a beach or something, not the bogs of a greasy spoon. The second downside was that he annoyed me. He was very considerate that it was my first time, offering to make it as comfortable for me as possible, and he did give general advice on procedure as we went along, but he had some kind of behavioural tick where he frequently raised his eyebrows, blinked rapidly and adjusted his spectacles all at the same time. My RE teacher at school did the same thing. I might not be explaining it well, but it's like something a socially awkward car salesman might do when confronted by an angry customer, if that makes any more sense.
So in conclusion, I enjoy sexy stuff, and I'm whilst I'm quite shy, I'm confident enough at meeting people from the internet, but I have no pleasure in cottaging, and can get more accommodating sex elsewhere, so I'll probably not do it again. Although if I was pressed for time for some reason, like on a break from work or something, then maybe I'd consider it.
>>1339 >Eventually he came first, then me.
You may be missing out a juicy detail here, OPbumder. Were you playing with his diddle as well or is he just that crazy about sucking cock in public places that the rush made him spunk his pants? Was he wanking as he went along?
Good on you for trying something new. If a lass did this to me I would probably had had to pay her a significant amount and I reckon that would ruin the occasion for me.
The internet has made me paranoid that everyone is some AIDs fetishist out to infect me for their own pleasure so I've avoided strangers at all costs. That said I've ended up giving unexpected blowjobs to several friends just because I noticed we both wanted it and decided to throw off social norms for a half hour. It generally adds a good spice to friendships and I've never been a shit-lad and let an unfaithful bastard use me to cheat on someone so no drama has resulted from it. Were the world full of clean men I'd do this but with strangers.
