>>871 I'm polycurious, if you believe in such a thing as polysexuality. My preference in terms of wank material is women>traps>men though I've only properly been with women. I did mess around with a male friend when I was a teenager and it was fun but we didn't really do much.
It's academic to me since I'm in a relationship with a girl and we're looking to get engaged soon, but if I was single I'd look to explore my cock-loving side a bit more, just to find out if I actually do like it or if it's just a fantasy, and from what I've heard in a few /di/ boards, getting with a trap can be hard unless you go with an 'escort' since many will assume you are just a chaser.
>>874>>869 Not the other poster, but there are 3 or 4 main sites for UK poofs:
Gaydar - Used to be good years ago, sometimes a couple of alright people on still but outside of the Manchester and London chatrooms all you'll find are old queens bitching and moaning all day.
Fitlads - Another old site, initially designed for sporty, chav/radge/townie and "str8" guys but now seems to have a lot more queen & scene guys who have stuff like "NO CHAVS" and "NOT LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS" in their profiles despite it being mostly sex-oriented. The site has a poor, dated design but it's quite active.
LadsLads - A site owned by a domain-squatting Welsh cunt </drama>. It's a gay social networking site written in ASP.net, vulnerable to SQL injection for mostly poseurs and queens. Quite active but probably not ideal for discreet lads.
Gay dot Co dot UK - Has quite an active chat system with a lot of young guys (it's the first result for 'gay chat' on Google UK).
It's always difficult starting out, especially for bi-curious lads... a lot of the people on gay sites will complain about you not having a photo, and there are a lot of dodgy bastards around.
We (my lad and I) have been with a few bi-curious guys and they always seem to come back... most I've met as 'normal' people in the pub or through friends and later they wanted us to help them experiment :P.
If you have an iPhone or Blackberry GRINDR is probably your best bet. Another place to meet people could be cruising areas - gaybod.com has a crude BBS-style forum with locations and people wanting to meet; It's a little seedy and can be a dangerous alone - but it's a good way to meet some people. Or if you live near the north-east, feel free to come on IRC and round for a drink ;)
If you are cute then post on a board somewhere that you want a chap to bum you rotten. You'll have them lining up around the block to stretch your arsehole out until it's like an old sack.
>>877 I commend you sir, as someone who is starting out and has been given the run around on gaydar it's good to know that there are decent guys out there.
Most people are more bi-curious than you'd think. If someone is staying over with you then just drop hints, or outright suggest that you do stuff. Obviously, they might take offence, but you could always laugh it off as a joke.