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Again, a lot of the older lads (and a lot of lads who are simply in denial) don't want to admit that picking up a partner in real life is essentially over. It's all online now. Fortunately that's an advantage for people who are socially awkward.
I'm 28. I'm a skinny fucker who had no self esteem as a teenager because my friendship group were basically bullying cunts. I was the kind of lad who got scared whenever I heard a woman laugh- You know exactly what I'm talking about there lads. But fortunately, by the time I'd started seriously considering a relationship (other than the high school "girlfriend" I treated like shit) online dating was already starting to become the norm rather than a last resort for saddos.
I've had 4 long term relationships. One of them broke my heart, one of them cheated on me, I broke one's heart, and the last one... Well, we'll wait and see what happens with that. I've shagged a handful of lasses inbetween, ranging from stunning to definite "guilty woulds". But the point is I never thought I'd actually be successful with lasses, and yet somehow I am.
The only thing I did is just started talking to them- Admittedly through a computer screen, but talking to them nevertheless. All over the place, POF, Tinder, chatrooms, fucking Fetlife, you name it. Just constantly talking to girls and conditioning yourself to actually befriend them in the same way you would a new work colleague or new lad in your gaming clan. That's the crux of the matter, they are people. The vast majority of them don't know what an incel is and they haven't been reading about rape culture on the internet for the last five years (Well, my current missus has, but it's part of the thrill to make her swallow my spunk right after an in depth conversation about gender equality).
You don't need to crack some magic code to unlock their ladygarden. You either make friends and- Shocker- Remain friends. Or else you hang out a few times, get a bit pissed one night, and wake up next to her, with dried up fanny juice soaked into your beard. Don't let all this in depth socio-political discussion cloud your mind- Just get yourself out there actually interacting with women.
Sure you'll get knocked back because you didn't read the signs, sure there are some people who'll say your behaviour is inappropriate if you do certain things. I think what those people forget is that women have the same learning curve in life, and they do plenty of fucking reprehensible shit as young lasses before they learn how to be decent humans- Just the same as lads. Don't let it get you down, you're only human. I think people are altogether too judgemental and lacking in compassion when it comes to people and their behaviours nowadays.
tl;dr Dating sites, lad, get on fuckin' POF jesus. If there's nobody near you there's nobody near you, look further and buy a train ticket.