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So, I've decided to try and not be that guy, a relationship-less virgin, into my mid-20s, which doesn't leave me with very long. I'm home from uni for the summer and have decided it's time to sort my act out. |
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OP, you are more or less fucked. Unless you are rich or very good looking playing the Internet dating is a waste of time. Try to make a female profile on the sites and you will know why. |
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attractive-guy-girl-advice-01.jpg >>27051 |
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attractive.jpg >>27054 |
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I'm 25 and never been in a relationship. Not really surprising considering I don't talk to anyone though. Been utterly lonely sincr the end of university. |
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Divide the little number by the big number. |
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He didn't spend much time thinking before replying "I'm sorry mate, I can't think of anyone" and changing the topic of conversation. |
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Gonna sound silly but don't hold women on a pedestal, they are as nervous as you. |
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>>27134 It was just something someone said to me once and it stuck. Didn't know it was from a film. |
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The problem I have with the meeting girls over a hobby advice is that I don't really have any hobbies and don't know if the kind of girl who has hobbies would be into me. Unfortunately I feel like it's a very particular kind of person who has hobbies in 2018. |
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I'm not quite sure how you're supposed to get replies on OKC. I don't just say hey, I always reference something their profile. |
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OKCupid is better played as a joke. |
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I'm 25 and never had sex or a relationship. It's just something other people do at this point. I'm completely dispassionate about everything and have no reason to continue living other than it's just what I've always done - not that being a virgin or whatever is making me suicidal, it's just another thing that I don't do that most people do, I have no reason for existence, I just continue, endure (though that implies that there's something to endure for). |
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Also I chime with the hobbies thing - in that nobody has them. People don't do that sort of shit, they go home, they text someone they somehow know then they eat shit food, watch netflix and fuck and so it goes on, nobody does anything, and if they do they're certainly not there to meet some spastic. |
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I am literally autistic and had no non-internet friends, had no hobbies, had no redeeming features, am ugly. I managed to find girls to fuck through Tumblr. If you can pretend to be interested in social justice, you could probably fuck a fat lass through Tumblr too. |
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Destruction_Derby_2_Coverart.png Going to make a brutally honest post here, lads. Others are welcome to disagree or call me out if they believe there's any misguided observations. |
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War_and_Peace_book.jpg >>27178 |
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exercising.jpg >>27174 |
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I feel like this thread has gone a very long time without anyone pointing out how internet dating has gone from pathetic and embarrassing to socially accepted and completely normalised, especially among younger people, over the last five to ten years or so. I know you said in the OP that you haven't had much luck that way but it really is the norm these days, people simply don't go out to pull any more. Someone will bite eventually so long as you are worth their time. |
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Not OP (nor anyone in this thread, as I remember) but I just canceled my tinder gold account. After just over two months my scores look a bit like this this: |
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Have you considered going outside? Dancing class perhaps? They’re always short on men |
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Listen lads. Tinder is a long game. As is POF and OKC and everything else, essentially. |
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Still no matches, but this is interesting: |
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Well, the end of summer is here, and still fuck all. There's a surprise. |
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Back at uni, my prospects are looking bleak. Very bleak. I know a lot of women but they are all far too cool for me. They all do humanities subjects and get ketty at the weekends, but I do STEM and don't touch unidentified white powders. |
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deserve.jpg [x] blog |
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I am a 31 year old virgin. Beat that. |
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914408.jpg I am acutely aware and ashamed by how pathetic it is that all I can do is make excuses, but hey, if I wasn't pathetic then I wouldn't be making this thread. |
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>>27628 42. She asked nicely, we were working together. |
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375546.jpg Well, here we go. |
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ddc.jpg Well, it's all faded into a general quarter-life crisis. I know all the oldlads will laugh and laugh and laugh, but I need to write this down somewhere because I have nobody I can talk to about this. The one 'friend' I had who told me I could talk to them just straight up blanked me last time I tried, and continued the conversation like I hadn't even said anything. |
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Thought I'd posted in this thread before, but probably not. I lost it last year, mid 20s, she was younger. |
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Petrosyan.jpg >>27940 |
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datingpool.jpg You are all forgetting something: as you age, your dating pool becomes smaller and filthier. Nobody will have the same opportunities of a good looking, extrovert bloke in his teen years, unless obscenely rich. A 35 years old man will be literally invisible, and all half decent lady of his age are already married or in a LTR. Last time I tried a dating site the only "ladies" available were obese single mom on benefits looking for "a good man to take care of me and my little angels" |
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Well this has turned into a bit of a bin fire. |
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watchmaker.jpg >>28007 |
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image-w856.jpg Out at the pub last night, sitting tight-lipped while everyone else made virgin jokes. I can't blame them, but it definitely fucked up my night. |
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So, turns out in a beveraged state the other night I bought tinder gold. Of the 7 likes I had, 5 were bots all located 1583 (exactly) miles away, one was a "full time mummy whose little boy means the world to me", leaving one other. |
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picrel.jpg >>28053 |
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hhh.png Well, here we are. The uni year is basically done, what with dissertations and coursework and that, and then leading into exams in a month or two. |
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slimmingworld-web.jpg >>28266 |
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kmgszycvtzk21.jpg I know nobody wants to hear it, and yes I know I'm just a pathetic cunt, but fuck it I need to vent it somewhere. |
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I won't go into it because frankly no-one gives a shit but all I will say is that my thoughts and feelings have been taking a darker path, and it's becoming a struggle to stay off it. |
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Another year wasted. I feel like in many respects this year I have regressed, despite my best efforts not to do so. |
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How does one handle the physical and mental maladies of lovesickness? |
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I'm back on the dating sites after a break of many months. |
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Jesus Christ. Every time a date seems to have gone well I get some variation on "I've actually just realised I'm not in a good place for dating!". It's like a miniature emotional roller coaster every time. |
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[Headshot that's 95% a smoothing filter with animal ears and nose on top] |
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Well, I keep seeing this thread come up so here's my update. |
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This thread has convinced me to just stick with my current relationship even if it is questionable. Dating sounds awful, especially nowadays. I honestly think I'd just be alone at this point if I was single again. |
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