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It's all about looking after yourself.
If you're a bloated middle-aged degenerate office slave who hasn't done much exercise since school or uni, then those years of self-neglect will probably never be undone. But if you've always stayed active, then you can look pretty healthy and attractive as a bloke well into early middle age. One of my bosses at my old company was 45 and he was a former rugby player who still had the figure of an athletic 30-year-old, and he had women as young as 25 in our office swooning over him. What also may have helped was that his personal grooming habits were flawless, from meticulously styled hair to expensive cologne.
It is a bit different for women. Women have a quite different body fat metabolism to begin with, and as they get on in years it becomes much harder for them to keep a slim body weight. Women's connective tissue also isn't as time-withstanding as that of men, which among other things inevitably leads to droopy tits at some stage.
It's like the old saying goes - women have the advantage until they're 30, and over 30, men have the advantage.